HI, I’m Heather!
If you made it here, you probably want to know who's behind all of this and why?
I came to youth basketball the same way you might have. As a parent, with a kid who loved to hoop. I brought an old, dusty camera to his first tournament, and I didn't stay in the bleachers for long! Back then no one really took photos of the kids that weren’t headed to a D1 college or the league ane day.
They were playing their damn hearts out, and when I'd tell them how great they were, they'd rattle off ten things they did wrong. Even the ones who looked confident didn't quite believe in themselves. So I started showing them their own photos and saying, “Look!! Do you see how amazing you are?” And from that day, I never put my camera down and became known as Miss Heather, the girl in the black hat with the camera. What started as photography, just making sure these kids had proof of how strong they were, became something I never could have imagined. A calling.
I left a career I'd built for twenty-five years. One that was comfortable, and safe, and good to me. And I traded it for floors in gyms and hugging sweaty boys after hard losses, wondering if I'd lost my mind. But all I could hear, over and over, was just keep showing up. So I did. I locked the door on the old life and never once looked back. It didn't make sense. It just felt like peace.
Part of me wanted to protect them because as fun as sports can be it can also get chaotic super fast. Part of me wanted to just show them through my eyes just how great they already were before they ever even picked up a basketball because as fast as I was seeing kids find a confidence they never knew they had, I was seeing them lose it in a matter of seconds. Over the years, the San Diego basketball community let me in, into the huddles, the benches, the locker rooms and their hearts. I made a promise to them in 2022 that I would always honor them above their game.
So welcome, to the place the kids and this community helped me build, by trusting me, by letting me love them and be part of their experience.
My gift to you is a home for everything I've learned, all of it under one roof. The resources and tools I wish someone had handed me. The voices of the kids themselves. A community, so no parent walks this alone. And a voice of reassurance, for the moments you feel like you're going crazy and just need to be reminded that you've got this, and so does your kid.
As much as I wanted to save these kids, to keep them safe and protected, just like you do, I realized something. These kids don't need a hero to save them.
They are the hero.
hero \ˈhir-ō\ noun
Not the one who never falls, but the one who keeps getting up. Not the strongest in the room, but the one brave enough to keep showing up. Their failures are their lessons, their losses are their wins. For where there is doubt, there is always belief, that rises up again. So when there's nothing left, and all is asked of them, they find the light within the dark, and show up once again.
— Heather Cleaves
Founder, Human.Hooper.Hero